Tuesday, 14 June 2016

A Pink Poncho, A Flamingo Top and Some Rules For Parenting Teens.

You may remember that I attended a 30-40+ blogger meet in London, last month. The event was sponsored by Hope Fashion and the founder Nayna Mackintosh very kindly gave every delegate one of these bright pink ponchos. It's a mix of Merino wool and cashmere and is unbelievably soft, light and warm. I don't wear wool ordinarily because I find that it makes me itch, but this doesn't at all, so soft are the fibres, (which is rather a shame for my mum because I would have given it to her if it did).

These photographs were taken two weeks ago, before I had my hair cut and the day before the start of the hot sunny spell that lasted for well over a week. It was too warm to even think about writing a post about it so I put it on the back-burner until now, because the temperature has dropped significantly and it's grey and wet outside. An injection of  bright colour is perfect for dull days although I think this poncho will be useful all year round. I'd wear it with denim shorts and sandals on a breezy British beach and with layers and boots in winter and it's ideal for in-flight cosiness because unlike a jacket, it can easily be folded and packed away if arriving at a warm destination. 

I wore mine on a day when I was running errands in Skipton with my children during their half-term holiday. I've found of late that my 13 year-old son is less and less keen to go out in public with me lest we be seen together, because he would "literally die of embarrassment." Because of this, he walks incredibly quickly ahead of me, so flat shoes are a must for keeping apace with him. They're also a good and practical option when traversing Skipton's cobbles too actually. I take heart in the fact that I know I'm not the only embarrassing mother, because several others have been afforded the same accolade by their equally quick-footed teenage boys. He makes me laugh though and so long as I follow his guidelines, he's happy. I may "like" his Instagram posts, but I may not be the first liker. I may not comment in case someone traces it and me back to my blog. Unthinkable. When watching him play football/rugby, I may clap and cheer but I am not permitted to say actual words. I may only attend to him when injured if bone is visible, if he has been rendered unconscious or if the Air Ambulance has been summoned. I wonder what his friends would think if they were to hear him tell me several times a day that he loves me. If they were to see just how caring and sensitive he is and that he still likes to snuggle with me, while wearing his monkey onesie, before he goes to bed. I suspect that behind closed doors they're all the same. 

In complete contrast, my 15 year-old daughter loves going out with me and is pleased if we bump into her friends when we're out. She asks if I'll comment on her social media and warns me in advance that she's about to post to Instagram so that I can be the first liker. She is proud of my blog and has told her media teacher about it. Yet, getting her to lie with me for a cuddle is like trying to catch a cloud. She rarely says "I love you" preferring to text the diminutive "ILY" but I'm in no doubt about how much she loves me. 

My children are my everything and my world revolves around them. I enjoy (almost) every minute with them and I love seeing how their personalities and personae are developing. I adore them, they adore me and even a day such as this when all we did was go to the dentist and to the school uniform shop, I was left with precious memories of time spent together. These little things are sometimes quite big.

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

This quirky flamingo top is the same cut and style as one I have with navy pineapples on which I wore a month or two ago with a bright orange jacket. It's lighthearted, bright and a bit of fun and I absolutely love it.

Thank you to my daughter for taking these photographs, in public, on our way home.

The Hope bright pink poncho and flamingo top

Love Liz x

Outfit details:
*Pink flamingo print top, £29, Dash Fashion
*The Poncho Knit in fuhshia, £95 Hope Fashion
Boyfit Jeans, Next
Double star ring in matt silver (also available in matt gold) £25 by Danon at Lizzy O
Silver skate shoes, Johnnie B at Boden, past season

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8 comments

  1. You look lovely, Liz, and I'm so pleased Poppy was happy to be a public photographer. Next time, stand on one leg like a flamingo, and see if that embarrasses her, hahaha! I have no doubt BOTH children are as proud of you as you are of them, teenage "rules" notwithstanding. "Trying to catch a cloud" is a lovely image; isn't it funny how different boys and girls are? xx

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    1. Thank you Lisa. yes, she's less self-conscious than she used to be about photographing me in public! I wish I'd have stood one one leg though like you suggested. Next time..! Yes, my two are so different despite the same upbringing. I do think boys seem to be a more affectionate species! xxxxx

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  2. Haha I may not have children but sometimes I feel like an embarrassed child with Mr Summers as my embarrassing parent when we're out in public... I'm sure it's his life's goal to show me up!! Love the stories of your two - they'll probably change again when they're grown up ;)

    The deep pink looks so gorgeous on you Liz, it offsets your beautiful hair :))

    Catherine x
    http://notdressedaslamb.com

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    1. Haha!! Yes, I can just imagine Mr Summers doing that!!! I'm sure they will change and I do know that deep down they think I'm ok!!!
      Thank you. I love the pink. It's not a colour I'd ordinarily wear next to my face but I really like it. It just shows...! Xxxxxx

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  3. This is such a touching post! Ah...these kids. They turn our lives upside down from the moment of conception and they never stop amazing us! You look so adorable in the pink wrap and your slip on sneakers. And your daughter took amazing photos!

    Shelbee
    www.shelbeeontheedge.com

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    1. Yes! That is so true! They really do turn our lives upside down but I woukdnt have it any other way! Aw, you're so kind- thank you. It is a beautiful wrap and so cosy and yes, my daughter did a great job! xxx

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  4. Really touching post hun, I remember being like this with my folks growing up and he'll grow out of it. Love that he still snuggles behind closed doors. You look gorgeous, love the vibrant poncho, I adore ponchos and they're perfect for transitional weather aren't they x

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    1. Aw, thank you Vikki. Yes, lots of cuddles in private which is what matters! The poncho is perfect for this weather which still can't make up its mind! xxxx

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